Friendship quilt along

Friendship Quilt Along Block #2 - TRUSTWORTHY

June 08, 2018 in events

Here are links to our friends who are making this block! We are so excited to have them join us and to share their TRUSTWORTHY blocks!! Click on their names to link to their blogs.

Trustworthy: [truhst-wur-th ee] adjective

1. deserving of trust or confidence; dependable; reliable:

“Friends should be chosen by a higher principle of selection than any worldly one. They should be chosen for character, for goodness, for truth and trustworthiness, because they have sympathy with us in our best thoughts and holiest aspirations, because they have community of mind in the things of the soul”

— Hugh Black

As a child I had a best friend who, knowing my intense fear of all arachnids, thought it would be funny to throw a living spider at me. That experience taught me a valuable lesson. The hurt and betrayal that I felt at her action was very real and painful. If I never wanted those I cared for to feel that same way then I had better make sure to treat their fears, hopes and secrets with the utmost care. I can’t say that I have an unblemished record but I have always tried from that day to be a trustworthy friend.

“Trust each other again and again. When the trust level gets high enough, people transcend apparent limits, discovering new and awesome abilities for which they were perviously unaware.”

— David Armistead

Trust is like a delicate butterfly found in every soul. Some people hold it close and keep their butterfly protected by not letting it venture out to often. Others let their butterfly roam free and just accept the damage that come from the adventure of truly living. Whichever way people treat their butterfly of trust - it is our duty as friends to remember it’s fragile nature. We should be watchful of ourselves to make sure that our words and actions to do not tear, shred or break it. A mark of a true friend is the careful way we keep our friend’s butterflies whole and undamaged when it is in our care.

“Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters.”

— Albert Einstein

It is useful to evaluate how we are doing with the trust that others give to us. As Steven Covey says, “The process of building trust begins with yourself.” But how do we do that? Even a short search on the internet yielded up very similar suggestion lists. Here is a culmination of those lists.

Be reliable
Be honest
Be loyal
Keep confidences and private information private
Be sincere
Do the right thing

That’s a short list and one that if we aren’t already doing, we can make the necessary changes starting today. After all, “No virtue is more universally accepted as a test of good character than trustworthiness.” - Harry Emerson Fosdick.

Our friends at Just Another Button Company have written a blog post with some great tips on paper piecing! Even if you are familiar with PP, you could always learn more.

Want some help making your trustworthy block? Follow this link to see a fun video that I made when I visited Fat Quarter Shop!

And if you are looking for a great way to quilt this block, here is a beautiful suggestion by my friend Debby Brown

Friendship Quilt Along Block #1 - FUN!

June 01, 2018 in events

Here are links to our friends who are making this block! We are so excited to have them join us and to share their FUN blocks!! Click on their names to link to their blogs.

Fun:[fuhn] noun

something that provides mirth or amusement 2.enjoyment or playfulness

Our first block represents the quality of fun! Fun is so important in a friendship. In many ways fun is what forms a friendship in the first place. Often two people come together because of a shared passion, activity, or experience.

Fun comes in many different forms but it any form it does the same thing, it feeds our energy and creativity or as some would say, it feeds our soul. Dr. Marc Bekoff stated, “Play [Fun] is serious business. This sounds paradoxical and it is, in so much as something that comes so naturally to large-brained mammals (and birds, according to some authorities), that is so much fun, is so vital. Play is a banquet for the brain, a smorgasbord for the senses, providing nourishment for body and spirit.”

As quilters much of our fun happens in pursuit of our shared passion. We delight in thread, we revel in fabric and we get adventurous with projects. A sale at our local store stirs up emotions and behaviors reflecting that of a kid in a candy shop. With so much fun at our fingertips it’s nearly impossible not to share in the fun together.

“Creativity is Intelligence having fun. ”

— Albert Einstein

How many times have we created friendships at some shared activity where we were creating new? How often have we bonded over our love for fabric or notions? How many life long friends have come into our lives because we were willing to step out of our homes and connect with one another because of our love for sewing? Even those times when we are frustrated over learning a new technique we find that fun slips in and most of the time we gain a new friend, renew and replenish an old friendship or have something new we are eager to share with our steadfast buddies.

One of the great reasons for having fun in your field is for the health benefits! According to the American Art Therapy Association, art therapy is the process of making and creating artwork and yes, this includes all your sewing projects, finished and unfinished. Art is used to "explore feelings, reconcile emotional conflicts, foster self-awareness, manage behavior and addictions, develop social skills, improve reality orientation, reduce anxiety and increase self-esteem.”

Even if you don’t consider the things your making worthy of the title of Art, your creation process still counts. It doesn’t matter if you are following a pattern or making things up as you go. The simple doing is enough to bring you important health benefits. Sergio Pellis, professor of neuroscience at the University of Lethbridge in Alberta, Canada states, “Play is beneficial for developing a range of skills and at least some of them are improved by play-induced changes in the prefrontal cortex. This has important implications for human development.”

“Having fun is the best way to learning.”

— Albert Einstein

Peter Gray, a research professor at Boston College, writes that much play “is self-chosen and self-directed,” an imaginative, non-literal activity “in which means are more valued than ends,” with “rules that are not dictated by physical necessity but emanate from the minds of the players.” So remember, when playing don't beat yourself up to much if your measurements don't come out right the first or second time. Don't get worked up over having to unpick a little here or there. It's all part of the process and the process is fun... most of the time... or we wouldn't keep going back!

So play with your fabric, play with your friends and family. Have fun experimenting with your projects and invite a friend or two along. And remember, with each project you create, you are feeding your body and mind but you are also creating something that will beautify, comfort or bring happiness to yourself and others. Lady Allen of Hurtwood said, “Better a broken bone than a broken spirit”. I would amend that to, “Better a broken needle than a broken spirit”!

HOW TO

For this block there are so many techniques you can use! We used two different techniques on two different blocks for this one. Prepared hand appliqué and shadow appliqué using a double sided fusible product.

For the prepared hand appliqué, we traced the templates onto wax paper, and cut out two of each shape for each piece. Then we ironed it to the back of the fabric and pressed the fabric to the back side using starch and a hot iron. For the circles, we gathered the edge with a basting stitch and pulled it tight around the wax paper. Then we ironed it using starch and a hot iron.

For the tiny flower, we made it easy and used wool. This shape can be difficult to manage and I like to make things easy! We stitched it in place using a blanket stitch and Aurifloss.

There are also lots of techniques for the stem, but we opted for using a bias tape maker! The size we used was 1/4", and it makes it so slick and easy. Just tuck your ends under and hand stitch around the stem.

Once all the pieces are cooled, we popped out wax paper templates, laid our pieces in place and hand stitched them using our favorite Aurifil thread.

Here is a video to me showing this technique at Fat Quarter Shop:

For the shadow appliqué method, trace your template onto the paper side of the double sided fusible product. Cut out on both sides, leaving about 1/8" of fusible on each side of the line. Fuse to the back of your fabric. Cut out ON the line. Peel the paper off and you are ready to fuse to the background fabric. Repeat for all pieces you are using this technique on. Lay everything out on the background fabric and fuse in place. Sew in place using your favorite stitch (we love to use the blanket stitch!) or stitches. We also mixed in some wool on this block, too. I love mixing textures and substrates. I think it makes things really interesting!

Here is a video of this technique that Fat Quarter Shop filmed: COMING SOON!!

If you haven't already, you can also pick up a quilt kit at Fat Quarter Shop! Here is a link in case you want to pick one up! https://www.fatquartershop.com/friendship-quilt-kit

Friendship Quilt Along Introduction and Schedule

May 21, 2018 in events

Welcome to the Friendship Quilt Along! I am excited you are here and excited to welcome so many of my quilt friends who are joining in on this event. Here is a schedule of who will be sharing what blocks and when. Many will be sharing their own techniques and tricks for making the blocks, so you will want to check in regularly to see what's going on! Be sure to follow us on Instagram (@AmandaHerringDesigns) where the most current information and images will be available June through August. We will also provide links to the social media accounts for all of our friends.